Me in 2007!!!

2007 in review

I hardly ever write in my blog so I decided that I would do a year in review to make up for it. This year has been a crazy and different year. I moved out of my house and into my apartment in January. That was both a crazy and exciting experience. I never lived on my own before, but I was beginning to see exactly what it was like. I don’t think I went crazy with any crazy partied or anything. But I did enjoy having my own room and bathroom. That was also a first for me. I could just walk around my room completely naked and that was just really awesome. Let’s see… I met a few people, but none worth talking about. I am not really friends with them now so yeah. Also at the beginning of 2007 me and my boyfriend broke up. He was still acting like same old same old and I was tired of it. So it just had to end.
Next I started dating this guy Jordan. Cool guy, listens to a little too much heavy metal, but still cool. Um he was still obviously stuck on his ex-girlfriend. I mean he talked about her all the time so I assume he was still stuck on her. So it was no surprise that he broke up with me after 3 weeks. Oh well we live and we learn. My initial reaction was to run back to my Ex which is what I always do. But this time he was hesitant to get back together. I guess since I broke up with him that he was the one hurting.
The school year went on and I became broke and decided to come back to work for Hilton Reservations. So at that point I was a full time student with a full time job **pulls hair out**. It was hard at first but I got the hang of it. Then I went to my first UNT party after finals were done called Final Exxam. It was really fun!!! We got serious drunk, well some of us, and the rest were the drivers. I was talking to this really cute guy, but then we had to leave because Attah tells me and Shayna to come outside to get our friend. It was my best friend at the time that claimed she was drunk and that she wanted her boyfriend to come pick her up. So we all go back to the apartment very upset because we were missing a really cool party and we call her boyfriend. He did not want to come and we literally had to beg, but finally he came 30 minutes later. He comes and the fake drunk girl (that’s what we’ll call her) was still faking so that he would take her with him. He looks at her and tells her that she is faking. She continues to fake and we continue to beg because she wants to leave with him. My friend Shayna starts to get upset because we can obviously tell she is faking and they start yelling at each other. I split them up and tell Shayna to chill because we can all tell that she is faking and no reason to get up set. Then of course the fake drunk starts to yell at me and swings her hand and hits me. So I slapped her back. And then our friends and her boyfriend split us up and he finally agrees to take her.
The next day she comes over and says that she does not remember anything which was also another lie. She had no other cards to play because she knew she was completely wrong so she pulled the “I forgot” one. So needless to say, after that day our friendship was seriously never the same. I realized that she would always be this way so I tried to accept it seeing as we had been friends for so long. But after the last lie she pulled on my birthday I decided that I can not be friends with someone who is such a liar and who will not take responsibility for their actions and just apologize. If you can get that from someone who is suppose to be your best friend, then what’s the point right?
So outside of my best friend drama… I had gotten back together with my ex again. I started dating this guy that I met at the Final Exxam party just before we had to leave. We started talking and my ex heard about it. I guess he got jealous and really wanted me back. He planned this date and everything to show me that he really had changed. So I broke it off with the other guy and started dating my ex again. What can I say... I heart that guy!!!
Things were going pretty smoothly for a little while, but then there began the problems with my man and the fake drunk. Apparently she was still upset that we were not friends. At work she attempted to talk to other people while I was talking to them. Most cases in the past we would fight and then just all of a sudden start talking again. I guess she thought that was the case n now, but when she saw that I meant business then the trouble began. She was telling people at work that I was pregnant, which was a complete lie. I had not been doing any baby making activities in a while so there was definitely no possibility. It was when I realized that she was just going to be hateful and spiteful toward me. Then, maybe a few weeks later, she gets upset because I answered someone’s question.
Ok Back Story: They asked her a question relating to work, she didn’t know and replied “I don’t know” and I so happened to over hear. So I answered the questions and the women said thanks.
Back to the Story: After that, she then goes and tells another co-worker that she hates that I butt in her conversations. I over hear and I see her rolling her eyes. I say out loud “if you have something to say you can say it to me”. From there she gets upset and starts yelling about me butting in her conversations and I need to wait until she sits down to speak to people. Can I just add one thing here… what a PSYCHO!!! She then shews me away with her hand. I then get upset because I hate when people do that and I confront her about the pregnancy lie. She of course denies it and says that I lied to another friend of ours about seeing her at Shayna’s apartments. Blah Blah Blah She starts yelling and cussing, at work mind you, and telling me I’m on that bull$#@ and to go F^#$ yourself… I repeat- PSYCHO!!! She then goes to sit down still yelling and cussing and I go to sit down to. Our POC calls her to talk outside and she starts crying saying she can’t talk… I know what a PSYCHO right??? Then they both come back and she kept repeating… You F^$&ing liar… blah blah blah… so I started to laugh. The whole situation was funny and childish and we work at a professional place of business. So I told her to act mature… while laughing in her face… and she says to shut the F^%$ up to my face… and I continue to laugh… in her face. She then storms off, like the 5 year old she is, telling our co-workers across the room that I am antagonizing her. Please keep in mind that she can’t even spell antagonize… let alone define it. Anyways that was my work drama and now we are not suppose to speak to each other at work, but the bright side is I didn’t get written up. YAAYYYY!!! Score one for Tysha!!! LOL
Oh and then my man was upset with me for not having time to spend with him. Keep in mind that I work a full time job and I am a full time student, a serious student not those slacker students. Anywho… this lead to multiple arguments over the same thing… TIME. So eventually he sent me a text saying that he needs a break. And I explained that I don’t do breaks and we were broken up yet again. I heart that kid, but he sure did put me through a lot.
So anyways there I was boyfriend less again and my life was pretty much which club am I going to go to this weekend. I met a bunch of different guys but I did not want to be with them I just wanted one particular person. Maybe one week after he broke up with me my ex texted me and we talked. I explained to him that he messed up this time and that we were not getting back together this time. I thought that after that conversation that things would be over, but he called and called more and more. He was very very persistent even though no one really wanted us to get back together.
So aside from my ex-boyfriend and ex-best friend problems I had a freak accident the Sunday after Thanksgiving. I went to the movie theater with my parents and sister to see that Chris Brown movie “This Christmas”. Me and my sis were sitting next to each other and we were playing around crossing our legs and she was like “you should cross your legs the other way so it won’t bump into mine. So I went to cross my legs and it twisted weird and it hurt so I jerked it forwarded and it hurt even more. So then of course me being the wimp I am I started to scream in pain and agony. It was for the most part very embarrassing. The Ambulance had to come and get me and they had to carry me out of the theater on a stretcher… stupid knee!!! When we got to the hospital they did some X-rays and I had not broken anything, but pretty much sprang my knee. The whole nursing staff was in aww of how someone could hurt there knee by crossing there legs… it was pretty much the question of the day. Anywho… they gave me a splint and pain pill subscription and sent me on my way. When I first got home from the hospital everyone was just shocked by the news that I was in the hospital and on crutches, but when I told them what happened they were so over taken with laughter that they forgot all about feeling sympathy. I can’t blame them for laughing though because it was a ridiculously funny story.
So anyways, when all that first happened, I had also decided to finally give in and get back together with my ex who is currently my man. Also, during this time when I was “out of commission” I realized who were my real friends… you know the ones who are there for you no matter what opposed to the ones that just are there when it is convenient for them. I am still cool with the “convenient” friends, but I just now know how they are. I also realized that I do not need to go out and party so much. Sometimes staying in and watching a movie can be just as fun. And all that going out will run its course on your body. Yeah pretty much after this experience I think that I am a much better and well rounded person. Sometimes God has to slap you in the face to make you realize what’s most important. And that experience was definitely a slap in the face.
Well that was pretty much my year… I mean I know there were something’s I left out, but you guys pretty much get the drift. Now I am ready to start 2008 with my man and my real friends. Hopefully this year has way less drama.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE!!! REMEMBER EVERY YEAR IS A NEW START!!!

LADYT 